Gomers Revisited: Sympathy November 18, 2007
Posted by keepbreathing in Career Advice, Medical Blogs, gomers, health and wellness, hospital, links.trackback
Despite my recent raving about Gomers and the frustrations that they bring to the healthcare world, I honestly feel a lot of sympathy for them. They’re feeble old people who should have been allowed to die with dignity, but who we are keeping alive for reasons I am unable to discern. Terry over at Counting Sheep has made this point much more eloquently than I have. The last line here is exactly what I have been trying to say:
These are the lost people of our society, and they cannot speak for themselves: the crowning culmination of a life. lived. long. They come to our ORs to have feeding tubes inserted into their abdominal wall; to have their bedsores scraped and excavated; to have their broken bones repaired; to have months and sometimes years of neglect “fixed” so that they may return to exist. In a life without hope or happiness, only today, over and over again.
“Where do they all belong?”
This old, edentulous woman, this shriveled shadow of a man in the bed. Surely he once laughed, and dated; she married and bore children. She cooked; he worried about his family. She did the ironing and darned the family’s socks. He had opinions; he balanced the checkbook. She felt the hot sun on her head; the icy winter blast of wind braised his cheek. She lost her husband too soon; his children all moved away.
There is nothing we can do to save them from us.
How very true.



Oops, sorry. That was me above. I also write a blog about cooking dairy-free and I forgot to log off of that one before I posted on your blog. If you want to remove my comment, I’ll be happy to repost under Counting Sheep. SORRY!